Frequently Asked Questions

SHIPPING

When will my order be shipped?

Preparation time is 1-3 business days for regular products, 4-6 weeks for customized products and 6-8 weeks for customized silk scarves.

If you need to place an urgent order, contact us at: info@softstrokessilk.com / 647-242-2392

To read our full shipping policy please click here.

How long does it take for me to receive my order once shipped?

Full shipping policy can be found here.

Canadian customers
- Default shipping is untracked regular mail (1-3 weeks) for our small items and Canada Post tracked parcels (2-8 business days) for our larger items. You can upgrade to Canada Post Xpress (2-3 business days) for an extra charge.
- Free Pick Up: Toronto customers can message us to arrange for pick up in the Liberty Village area
- If needed, we could ship next-day delivery at DHL. Additional charges would apply. Please call 647-242-6392 for assistance or email info@softstrokessilk.com.
- Note: if you have both a small item* and a large item** in your cart, the upgrade option won’t load. This is a Shopify tech issue (our shop is powered by Shopify). In this case, please contact us and we’ll let you know the additional charges, which you can e-transfer to us.

US Customers
- Standard shipping: Chit Chat with tracking. 5-10 business days. Free shipping for orders over $35 USD
- Upgrade to Canada Post Xpress: 4-5 business days
- Upgrade to DHL/Purolator/EMS/UPS: 2-3 business days

UK Customers
- Standard shipping: Chit Chat with tracking. 10-15 business days
- Upgrade to DHL/Purolator/EMS/UPS: 2-3 business days

Australian & New Zealand Customers
- Standard shipping: Chit Chat with tracking. 10-20 business days
- Upgrade to DHL/Purolator/EMS/UPS: 5-7 business days

EU Customers
- Standard shipping: Chit Chat with tracking. 10-20 business days
- Upgrade to DHL/Purolator/EMS/UPS: 2-3 business days

Non-EU European Customers
- Standard shipping: Chit Chat with tracking. 20-30 business days

Other International Customers
- Standard shipping: Chit Chat. This does not include tracking once the parcel leaves U.S.. If you'd like to get tracking, please contact us

*Small items include: face masks, scrunchies, eye masks, headbands
**Large items include: everything else

Where can I find my tracking code?

For Canadian customers: We ship smaller items via regular mail without tracking. If you would like to have a tracking code, please choose “Tracked Parcel” when you check out. For larger items, our default shipping is “Tracked Parcel”. You will receive an email with the tracking code once the order is shipped.

For customers from U.S., Australia, New Zealand and Europe: You will receive an email with the tracking code once the order is shipped.

For all other customers: your default shipping may not have tracking. If you'd like to get tracked shipping, please message us to get a quote.

How can I correct a wrong address or cancel an order?

Mistakes happen! Please let us know ASAP once you realize the shipping address is wrong. We can always correct the address or cancel the order if the order hasn't been mailed yet.

Please note that if an order is not marked as "shipped" in the system, it doesn’t necessarily mean it hasn’t been mailed, as our shipping staff mark orders as "shipped" after they return from the post office.

Please call 647-242-6392 for assistance or email info@softstrokessilk.com.

My parcel shows delivered but I haven't received it. Could you help?

If your order is showing delivered, but you haven't received the parcel, please first check:

- Your mailbox
- Your concierge (if you live in a condo)
- And lastly ask your neighbours if they have received your parcel

US customers who chose default shipping: Chit Chats collaborates with USPS to deliver. Sometimes, USPS marks a parcel as "delivered" 24-48 hours before the delivery happens. Please give it a day or two and see if it's delivered.

All customers who have tracked shipping: feel free to contact local carrier (ex. Canada Post, USPS) to double check.
Otherwise, please message us, and we'll try our best to assist you. Please call 647-242-6392 or email info@softstrokessilk.com for assistance.

Tracking shows my parcel hasn't been moving. What is happening?

We've seen this happen once in a while with all shipping carriers.

In European countries, it is normal to see the status of a shipment not being updated for 1-2 weeks. There's a very good chance that these orders would get moving again. It simply means it's in transit.

CA and US orders: if your order is not moving for 1-2 weeks, it could go either way. It could mean that the shipping carrier is dealing with high volumes, or that the order is lost. Please email info@softstrokessilk.com for assistance.

Can I return an item?

We accept returns and exchanges within 30 days of delivery. Returned items must be unworn, unwashed, undamaged with all original tags attached. We do not accept returned items that have been worn, damaged, washed, or altered.

Custom products, face masks and lingerie cannot be returned or exchanged.

If you have received a defective product, please message us. The cost of sending the products back is the customer’s responsibility.

Please read our full return policy here.

My order is a gift. Could you skip the receipt/provide gift wrapping/write a card on my behalf?

Receipt: Our orders are sent without receipt by default, as a digital order confirmation is sent to your email.
Gift wrapping: This will depend on the item - message us at info@softstrokessilk.com for further details. Please note additional costs may incur.
Card: We can certainly write a card on your behalf. Please put details in the “Comment” section or email us. This doesn’t incur any additional cost.

Where are you located? Can I pick up my order/go in to try something on?

We are located in Liberty Village in Toronto, Ontario, Canada. We don’t have a brick-and-mortar store, so this is only a pickup location. To arrange a pickup, please email us at info@softstrokessilk.com. We don’t have a change room right now but once we have a physical location we will update the site.

TRANSACTIONS & COUPONS

Could you let me know when you have sales or coupons?

Of course! We have an email subscription program. Please subscribe via our pop-out, and we will make sure you never miss a sale from us. We also offer a coupon to first-time subscribers.

If the pop-out is not showing for you, please email info@softstrokessilk.com so we can manually subscribe you.

I’ve purchased an item at a regular price. Now it’s on sale. Could you refund me the price difference?

Unfortunately, we cannot issue a refund in this case. To make sure you never miss a sale, please subscribe to our newsletter and we’ll email you each time a sale happens.

I have a coupon from you, but when I entered the code, the discount didn't apply. What should I do?

It is possible that the coupon you have is expired. Please contact us at info@softstrokessilk.com so we can give you a new coupon if eligible.

Can I order by providing my credit card over the phone, submitting an email transfer, or paying cash in person?

Unfortunately, we cannot process credit card payments over the phone, but we can certainly accept an email transfer or cash payment in person. Please contact us at info@softstrokessilk.com for more details.

Can I use more than one promotional code on my order?

Shopify only allows one coupon at a time. If you have more than one coupon and they are both active, please use the coupon with the deeper discount to place the order, and email us at info@softstrokessilk.com so we can refund you for the second coupon (unused coupon).

How to place a bulk order?

We offer wholesale partnerships and participate in drop shipping programs.

Minimum quantity

Our minimum quantity of bulk order is 20, but we may be able to lower the quantity for larger items such as beddings.

How to place the order

Please message us at info@softstrokessilk with details including product type, quantity and time frame.

Sample

If you'd like to get a sample before purchasing, please purchase the product at regular price. If you decide to place a bulk order after, we will refund you the price difference for the sample.

Embroidery and Customization

We offer custom embroidery and can customize the style, colour and size based on your request.

Please note: bulk orders cannot be returned or exchanged.

How does your Reward program work?

To use our reward program, please first register with your email to be a member, then click on the "Rewards" button at the bottom right corner.

For each $1 CAD you spend on our site, you will receive 5 points. When redeeming, 100 points = $1 CAD.

When you refer us to a friend, both of you get a $10 CAD coupon.

PRODUCTS

Would I receive a product that looks exactly like the colour in the picture?

Due to different lighting and screen resolutions, colours can sometimes look different in different pictures. We unfortunately cannot guarantee that the colour you see on your laptop or phone screen is 100% the same as the one you see when you hold the item in your hands.

Is it possible to get a product customized (size, colour, style)?

We love custom orders! Most of our products can be customized in size, colour and style. Please visit our Custom Order page to find the product you’d like to customize. Custom orders usually take 4-6 weeks to complete (custom scarves take 6-8 weeks).

Could you help me to create an item that is not available in your shop?

Certainly! Please share more information with us at info@softstrokessilk.com. If you have pictures, that’s even better. If you would like us to replicate an item, for example, a vintage dress, you can mail it to us.
Some unique items we have created in the past include hair bows, retro-style lingerie, massage table headrest covers and silk lingerie bags.

How can I be sure the fit is correct?

Please refer to our size chart (usually the last image in the product listing) to find your size in our system. If you are in between sizes, we recommend that you size up. You can also order a customized item for a perfect fit.

I love silk scrunchies! However, I have a lot of hair/not a lot of hair and need a scrunchie that is longer/shorter. Can you do that?

Sure! You can order our custom silk scrunchie and provide the maximum length (when stretched) of the scrunchie.

I have a big head, so I’d like to order a larger bonnet/headband/eye mask. How do I do that?

For bonnets and headbands, we can certainly customize the order for you. We don’t have custom orders open for eye masks at the moment.

What is the difference between your silk charmeuse panties and your knitted silk panties?

We love them both! They are both 100% mulberry silk, but have different textures:
- Silk charmeuse: smooth, shiny, cool to the touch, has a little stretch
- Knitted silk: slightly textured, subtle shine, very delicate, very stretchy

Why are your Vin bralettes only available in XS, S and M?

Our Vin bralettes have a very simple design structure that doesn’t provide enough support for C cups and above, which has been tested by team members with larger cups. If you require a larger cup size, try the Shallan bralettes, which are very friendly to larger cups.

You have many colours in silk pillowcases but not that many colours in bedding. Is it possible to get silk bedding in a different colour (ex. black)?

Our bedding is seamless, meaning there is no central seam in the middle of our sheets and duvet covers. To achieve this goal, we must use extra-wide silk fabric, which doesn’t come in many colours.

At this time, we have listed all the colour options for 22-momme and 32-momme beddings; however, if you are looking for a particular colour, we can have it customized with an extra cost. Please message us for details.

Could you help with face mask size and measurement?

People's face sizes are often unique and not in direct correlation to their gender or height.
The best way to ensure a good fit is:
- Take a mask that you currently own and think to be a good fit.
- Use a tape measure, following the curve of the mask to measure the fabric part: width (from left to right) and height (from top to bottom).
- Compare the measurements with the measurements on our product pages.

Have your face masks passed the blow test?

As most platforms ban sellers from comparing our masks with medical-graded masks or commenting on their effectiveness, we cannot comment on this directly. However, our customers have left reviews on the blow test they did on our masks, particularly the double-layer and triple-layer masks. Please feel free to refer to their comments.

Are filters washable? How often should I replace them?

The filters are not washable. We are not medical professionals, but based on the information on the Internet, a filter should be replaced in 16-24 hours and should be aired out between uses.

Do you use 100% silk?

Yes, most of our products are 100% mulberry silk. We have a few face masks that use 95% silk or 93% silk, in which case we have indicated the information in the Material section.

How can I be sure that the item I received is mulberry silk instead of synthetic fabric?

We recommend doing a burning test. Carefully pull out a piece of fibre from the fabric or cut off a very tiny piece of fabric from the inside of the item and burn it. If it burns to ashes, it is silk; if it burns to unbreakable small balls, it is synthetic. This method can be confirmed online by other sources.

What does momme mean?

Momme is the unit used to measure silk density. The denser the fabric, the higher the momme. Read our blog for more details.

How do I take care of my silk items?

Most of our items can be machine washed (put in a laundry mesh bag, wash on the delicate cycle, use gentle detergent and hang to dry), even though hand washing is recommended to maintain the lustre of silk. Read our blog for more details.

What to do if my silk pillowcase or sheets pile?

Silk is very friendly to skin and hair, but it is also a delicate fabric.

It may pile because:
- Our body and hair rub against it
- We washed it in regular cycle instead of delicates, used warm water instead of cold, used regular detergent instead of detergent for silk

To avoid piling as much as possible, we could:
- Wash the silk items properly
- Reduce friction by applying body cream or wearing socks to bed

We recommend removing the balls using an electric trimmer.

COLLABS

Are you a Canadian shop? Where are your products designed/made?

Yes, we are a Toronto brand and a small business registered in the Province of Ontario. Some of our products are made in our Toronto studio; others are designed in Toronto and made in China, where silk originally came from. We work with a factory that passed the OEKO-TEX test and has been tested for SMETA (responsible and ethical sourcing).

I’m an influencer / supplier / marketplace / small business, and I would like to collaborate with you. How do I do that?

Welcome! We are more than glad to hear your ideas. Please reach out to us at: info@softstrokessilk.com.